Love Unfiltered: Real Talk on Dating and Relationships ❤️
No BS Advice Videos & Informative Posts for Men and Women (From a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
I.M. has maintained a year-long online relationship with a man who is too busy to meet in person. Despite his declarations of love, I.M. questions her investment and the potential for genuine connection. Sybersue advises setting boundaries, prioritizing self-respect, and recognizing the importance of face-to-face interactions for a fulfilling relationship.
The video addresses the dilemma of loving someone who fears commitment. It emphasizes that if a partner claims to love but avoids commitment, it signals his personal issues. The speaker advises not to invest in a relationship lacking mutual commitment, and encourages seeking a partner aligned with one’s relationship goals to avoid heartache.
The fact that this guy came back with an apology and explanation is a good thing, but my big question is why couldn’t he have been honest and just told you this, rather than blocking you without a word? Why did he have a problem openly communicating this to you?
Being Benched is when someone keeps you on hold by giving you occasional attention but also keeping you on the back burner! Basically, they are not quite sure what they are going to do with you and usually have a few people on their their bench roster. They love to keep their options open!
If you are putting way more energy into a new relationship than you are receiving from them, you are setting a precedence that will always put you in a lopsided and controlled scenario.
In this me/me world of today, those men and women who show class and good manners will always be held in high esteem and fare much better in the dating world. Word gets around and so does ones’ reputation!
