Why Do Most of My Relationships Only Last for 3-6 Months? Welcome to Dear Sybersue! Today’s discussion is a popular topic that many men and
I am having a hard time getting over a guy who wasn’t really who I thought he was. Did I make him into a fantasy boyfriend of what I really hoped to have? Did I let his looks and body play a big part in my attraction towards him?
Your partner needs to be made aware of why you have made this life-altering decision. You gave your heart to each other and professed your love to be in this committed relationship. No one should be left hanging trying to piece the breakup puzzle together. You owe it to your partner to be honest and upfront about why you no longer feel a connection with them.
Quite often we hang on to the wrong partners because we are afraid to be alone. If you continue to settle in the wrong relationship you will be shortchanging yourself from the powerful love you are meant to have.
Filling your thoughts with regrets will keep you stuck and repeating the wrong patterns. Appreciating the people you have loved along the way is a good thing and allows you to continue to grow to reach a higher place where you are meant to be.
Living in this type of environment is a constant reminder of what isn’t happening romantically between you as a couple. The love is gone and replaced by heartbreak and tears. It’s time to wipe those tears and not give any more energy to someone who doesn’t see, care or feel your pain.