The fact that this guy came back with an apology and explanation is a good thing, but my big question is why couldn’t he have been honest and just told you this, rather than blocking you without a word? Why did he have a problem openly communicating this to you?
Forgiveness isn’t an easy thing especially as you were blindsided by your partner when he abruptly left your marriage. The big question is; how do you move on from the pain that you went through during your divorce and is there a chance you could trust him again?
He reads the texts to let you know he has seen them but he doesn’t engage in a conversation with you. It sounds like he is keeping the door slightly open but his interest lies somewhere else. I am sorry if that sounds harsh but if there was a solid connection between the two of you, he would really look forward to chatting and getting to know you more.
Welcome to Dear Sybersue! This week I discuss the topic – Should I confess My Love to a Woman Who is Already in a Relationship?
I am having a hard time getting over a guy who wasn’t really who I thought he was. Did I make him into a fantasy boyfriend of what I really hoped to have? Did I let his looks and body play a big part in my attraction towards him?
If you are not ready to at least have “the talk” after two years, then keeping her on hold is what is making her feel insecure. She is not seeing any changes within your relationship and doesn’t want to continue on without the acknowledgment that you are there for the long hall.