I have dedicated a page to Matthew Hussey, because I truly believe in what he has to say when it comes to dating and relationships.
It is always wonderful to hear a man’s point of view, which can really help women improve their own dating or relationship scenarios and find the love they deserve. Men can also benefit from Matthew’s wisdom because his expertise attracts women to his YouTube channel, his retreats, and his weekly online posts. Maybe he’s on to something, guys! Matthew has 2.91 million subscribers on his channel, so he definitely has a respectful and dedicated following. I will continue to add videos here so that you can enjoy
In the video below, Matthew discusses how to stop playing the waiting game after a date. Many women become very anxious when they are hoping to hear back from a guy they just dated.
How to Stop Playing the Waiting Game by Matthew Hussey
I agree with what Matthew says and as a mature woman, I would like to add that any guy you have to play the waiting game with, is not worth your time! This is a big red flag. I learned this lesson early in my life. When there is a great connection between two people, they can’t wait to see you again!
You should always have a purpose in your life, and a potential partner should be an extension of who you already are as your authentic self. Having a full life, won’t allow you to get caught up in overthinking everything with any guy that you date. You don’t have time for games because you respect yourself too much.
When a relationship has potential, it flows and there aren’t a lot of questions because you have respectful reciprocated communication and chemistry with each other.
Most men appreciate when women have a full life and don’t come across as needy or too available. Confident men don’t want a yes-girl for a long-term commitment. A relationship needs balance, and there is no room for a controlling person who dominates their partner. If you have to try to figure out whether a guy likes you, he’s seriously just not interested enough.
Believe me, you will know if he is!
Dating today doesn’t mean hanging around waiting for one guy to get back to you. You can open up your “dance card” and date others as well. If you’re NOT exclusive with them, you don’t owe them anything and can date whomever you want.
That is the beauty of dating in the millennium; you won’t have time wondering if they will call or text you back, because you will be too busy to notice!
Trust me when I say that when the right one comes along, you will know it. <3
This second video below by Matthew Hussey literally had me laughing out loud! So much of what was said in this video is very true!
Men and women interpret things very differently on a day-to-day basis but even more so in the world of dating today! Matthew is the mansplainer in this video who dissects what is really being said between a couple out on a first date.
It is very important to understand how you come across when you are meeting someone new. So much can be read into face-to-face “one-liners” or impersonal texts, and we have to be careful how we present ourselves if we want to have a potential partner in our lives.
First impressions make or break that second date! These questions & statements listed below are huge red flags about someone’s character to be aware of:
- Never ask someone why they are single! “Why are YOU SINGLE buddy?”
- “When was the last time you had sex?”
- “How many men have you slept with?”
- “What’s your 5-year plan?” (How original!)
- “Are you on birth control because I don’t like using condoms?”
- “I am just looking to have some fun. I am not into having a serious relationship.”
- “Are you into having an open relationship?”
- “I just got out of a long relationship.”
- “I am separated from my wife, but still living at home. It’s only a matter of time until I get my own place.”
- “My marriage is over, but I am staying for the kids right now.”
- “I am not sure that I want kids, as my career is pretty demanding.”
When you pay attention on the first few dates, it can be fairly obvious whether they are sincerely into having a relationship or not. Don’t just hear what you want to hear; listen to what they are really saying. You can save yourself a lot of drama by doing so!
You are not there to fix them or change them, so don’t start thinking there is a possibility to mold them into your perfect prince charming. Move on to someone who you have a natural connection with.
When it is right, there aren’t too many complicated questions. It just flows. <3
Here is one of Matthew’s latest videos below: 19 PRACTICAL Ways to Flirt and Create Chemistry in Early Dating
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