Dating Relationship Coaching & Advice
No BS Advice Videos, Blogs & Advice Column for Millennials and GenXers (By a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
Whatever the reason was that she stopped texting, it could be good for you to have some closure with what transpired between the two of you. It can be very hurtful when someone ghosts you after you thought your relationship was going well! It’s always nice to have some clarity moving forward.
This scenario can happen for many reasons, but the most popular scenarios are due to couples becoming bored/complacent and no longer prioritizing their partner, being afraid of commitment, they are emotionally unavailable, or they may be settling in a relationship because they don’t want to be alone. Some people would rather be in a negative situation than end up being single again.
This scenario affects many couples due to the popularity of social media today. Posting selfies and numerous photos are becoming the priority over spending quality time with their partners.
Relationships are powerful and when they end it is another life experience that either holds you back or helps you grow. It is up to you which one that is; you are in charge of who you attract towards you and who you allow into your life. Once you truly understand that, it is much easier to clarify what makes you happy.
If you always take the time to be romantic to your partner, this will make them feel appreciated, desired, secure, and happy. As a result, this translates into long-lasting, real love. Having a reciprocated romance is the fire that keeps your bond and passionate love alive between you as a couple.
It is perfectly acceptable to ask her what her relationship goals are. If you are using dating apps or online websites I always suggest that you post your own personal goals in your profile description. That way there aren’t any questions and that anyone reading it knows you are looking for a life partner.
