No BS Advice Videos, Blogs & Advice Column for Millennials and GenXers (By a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
Don’t let life pass you by because you are too plugged in, to see the wonderful opportunities that are available to you every day. Be present and embrace your surroundings.
When you place fewer expectations and fewer early judgments about everyone you date, you will start to see that most people have something to offer. That doesn’t mean they are your forever person, but giving people more of a chance will definitely bring you closer to meeting a potential partner.
Stepping stones are a good thing and will bring you closer to finding your life purpose. They also allow you to have change and growth with each new experience.
There are two people in a marriage, and both of you have to be responsible for what didn’t work out and caused the demise of your partnership. Quite often one person moves on a lot faster after a divorce, which can enhance the feelings of loss even more. If you can both be compassionate and not rub your new life in each other’s face, this will greatly improve your interaction as a divorced couple.
Whenever something happens that you are not happy about with your partner’s actions, discuss it right then and there. Do not let it go by ignoring it or bringing it up at another time. Your self-respect is important, and this needs to be addressed when you feel disrespected by his behavior.
We all have different preferences that are important to us in a partnership, but having a few big goals that you both agree on as a couple, is such a healthy way to maintain your relationship. Being on the same priority page will always keep your love on track.
