When past hurt hardens the heart. Reclaiming joy in love and relationships.
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When past hurt hardens the heart. Reclaiming joy in love and relationships.
Marriage isn’t just about staying together, it’s about growing together as a couple as the years go by. Keeping the spark alive means continually nurturing the love you share. Love doesn’t fade with time, unless you let it.
You signed up to be in a relationship with your partner so it is the responsibility for both of you to maintain and nurture the love you share together. If you don’t check out emotionally, or let things bubble up and fester, you will be surprised at how easily you can resolve any argument that arises in your relationship.
Some people stay emotionally unavailable to protect their hearts. They walk away before they allow any attachment.
If you are on the same page within your partnership, then go for it! If you have both openly expressed your love and what you want in your future, then you know where you stand with each other as a couple. Times are changing, and we are continually evolving as men and women, finally leaving some gender traditions behind. If you truly want something, make it happen. Don’t wait for others to make things transpire if it is really important to you.
Talking to your partner about their fears and helping them see the positive things in their life can really help them to move forward. Many people who play the victim often have insecurities and trust issues. They may also feel that others are out to attack them or criticize them. Their self-esteem is jeopardized due to this ongoing thinking, which can be very difficult to get out of.