You are in charge of what you bring into your life which includes those repetitive patterns that may be keeping you stuck. We don’t often realize that we are sabotaging our own personal happiness by some of our internal thoughts and behaviors. What you think and say become a big part of your overall makeup and how you are perceived by others.
Communication is #1 in a partnership and is the glue to maintaining a long and healthy commitment. It helps keep everything in your relationship connected. Always pay attention to what is going on in your relationship and never be the last to know that your partnership is in trouble!!
You may also not realize that you are sabotaging your own happiness. If it is really easy for you to find fault with everyone on your dating apps or anyone you meet in general, you are creating an excuse to protect your heart from further wounds.
It is important to understand that you deserve to be loved and to own your part in what you may be doing to sabotage love from coming into your world. You are very much in charge of the people you bring towards you just as much as who you repel away from you. Once you realize this is totally in your control, you can then start to work on repairing that internal dialogue that is keeping you stuck.
Before you make any relationship commitment is very wise to ensure you are compatible in numerous areas. We all know that chemistry is very important but if you don’t have all the other elements that keep you close for the long haul, then your relationship will slowly start to fizzle out.
We all need to have a purpose in our life to feel valued and accepted. It is our responsibility to feel valued and not allow ourselves to feel unimportant or unseen by others. Make people take notice by showing them who you are and what amazing qualities you have to offer.