You may also not realize that you are sabotaging your own happiness. If it is really easy for you to find fault with everyone on your dating apps or anyone you meet in general, you are creating an excuse to protect your heart from further wounds.
It is important to understand that you deserve to be loved and to own your part in what you may be doing to sabotage love from coming into your world. You are very much in charge of the people you bring towards you just as much as who you repel away from you. Once you realize this is totally in your control, you can then start to work on repairing that internal dialogue that is keeping you stuck.
Before you make any relationship commitment is very wise to ensure you are compatible in numerous areas. We all know that chemistry is very important but if you don’t have all the other elements that keep you close for the long haul, then your relationship will slowly start to fizzle out.
We all need to have a purpose in our life to feel valued and accepted. It is our responsibility to feel valued and not allow ourselves to feel unimportant or unseen by others. Make people take notice by showing them who you are and what amazing qualities you have to offer.
There are many pros and cons of online dating. I started out my own social experiment to find out all of them. In this post, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned and will tell you everything about online dating red flags.
If you are putting way more energy into a new relationship than you are receiving from them, you are setting a precedence that will always put you in a lopsided and controlled scenario.