Dating Relationship Coaching & Advice
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The trouble with this repetitive thinking is that it sabotages your chances of finding a loving partnership due to holding onto this judgmental attitude. Not all men are the same and not all women are the same! Really, how is that working out for anyone when a big percentage of men and women believe this to be true?
Sometimes we make ourselves busy, so we have an excuse not to date. We actually sabotage our own happiness without even realizing it.
Someone’s appearance on a dating app is not enough to tell you who they are. A well-written profile bio will help you decipher a little more about them, and is an important part of getting to know someone before you decide to meet up with them in person. Pay close attention when you are reading someone’s personal profile and really hear what they are saying.
Very few people are OK answering numerous personal questions with someone they just met. It automatically puts them on guard and changes up the dynamics of the date. The atmosphere becomes more clinical rather than a relaxed and easy-going environment.
If you date with a positive outlook and give your energy to the right women, it can be a very exciting journey for you. You’re looking for a partner you can have a committed relationship with, so please don’t expect things to happen quickly. Getting frustrated after only a few months of dating isn’t going to help you get closer to meeting your person. If love was that easy to find, then it probably wouldn’t be as special or as important as it really is in all of our lives.
This is a great conversation to have because this is happening with many people who are using dating apps or any other online dating platform today. When you continue to attract the same type of people that aren’t working out for you, there is something within your profile text or your photos that is encouraging this repetitive pattern.
