Love Unfiltered: Real Talk on Dating and Relationships ❤️
No BS Advice Videos & Informative Posts for Men and Women (From a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
When you are ready to choose a partner to share your life with, it is so important to take your time and pay close attention to what is actually transpiring between the two of you as a couple. The last thing you want to do is settle for a relationship just because you have decided it’s time to take the next step toward what you think should be happening.
Communication is #1 in a partnership and is the glue to maintaining a long and healthy commitment. It helps keep everything in your relationship connected. Always pay attention to what is going on in your relationship and never be the last to know that your partnership is in trouble!!
It is up to you who you attract and who you let into your heart, so ultimately it is “your choice” as to why something is or isn’t working out in your life. Step back and look at what has been going on for the last few years. Is there a lot of repetition? You seem to have no trouble meeting women but have difficulty getting to another level of maintaining a partnership long term.
Your partner should be a part of your life, not your entire life. No one wants to take on that role and if you put the shoe on the other foot, would you really be happy with someone who doesn’t love themself enough to be the best version of who they could be? Both people need to bring their “best self” to the relationship for it to work long-term.
Sandy expresses frustration about a guy she met online who reads her texts but never responds. Despite having positive interactions initially, his lack of communication is concerning. The advice suggests she stop texting him, asserting that she deserves respect and mutual interest, and to trust her instincts regarding relationships.
Before you make any relationship commitment is very wise to ensure you are compatible in numerous areas. We all know that chemistry is very important but if you don’t have all the other elements that keep you close for the long haul, then your relationship will slowly start to fizzle out.
