Love Unfiltered: Real Talk on Dating and Relationships
No BS Advice Videos & Informative Posts for Men and Women (From a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
You are in charge of what you bring into your life which includes those repetitive patterns that may be keeping you stuck. We don’t often realize that we are sabotaging our own personal happiness by some of our internal thoughts and behaviors. What you think and say become a big part of your overall makeup and how you are perceived by others.
Communication is #1 in a partnership and is the glue to maintaining a long and healthy commitment. It helps keep everything in your relationship connected. Always pay attention to what is going on in your relationship and never be the last to know that your partnership is in trouble!!
Being Benched is when someone keeps you on hold by giving you occasional attention but also keeping you on the back burner! Basically, they are not quite sure what they are going to do with you and usually have a few people on their their bench roster. They love to keep their options open!
Forgiveness isn’t an easy thing especially as you were blindsided by your partner when he abruptly left your marriage. The big question is; how do you move on from the pain that you went through during your divorce and is there a chance you could trust him again?
How would you feel if you were regularly being ridiculed online? We have all heard the line from our teachers or parents; “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything!” What reward does someone get out of hurting another person by being verbally abusive?
You have had a year to get over him and deal with the pain of his infidelity, and bringing him back in now will only set you back. If you want to move forward and attract the right man towards you, keep doing what you have been doing. Put yourself first and listen to your instincts.
