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Don’t Cry Over Someone Who Doesn’t See Your Tears!

Thank you for visiting me here at Dear Sybersue. Today’s weekly upload is for men and women who feel stuck in an unhealthy and loveless partnership.

It’s time to change this sad scenario so that you can move on to having a reciprocated relationship. Don’t allow yourself to become boxed-in to a one-sided situation. Life is way too short not to have the love you deserve!

We often think that when we have made our bed the wrong way, we still have to lie in it. This is far from the truth as there are options out there to help you find a happier solution.

As humans, we continue to evolve all the time and learn as we grow. Sometimes we repetitively take the difficult path. Other times, we quickly understand what doesn’t work for us anymore. Then we move on to a better place.

If your partner is oblivious to your emotions, they have probably checked out of the relationship. When they are removed from having any communication with you, it is a significant sign. This can be very detrimental to hear them say it out loud. But pretending that everything will work out and be OK is not realistic at this stage. If you are lonely living within your committed partnership, then something has drastically shifted between you as a couple.

Have you done everything you can to fix this?

Have you both acknowledged there is a problem?
Have you had any counseling together?
Are either you or your partner in denial about the changing dynamics within your committed connection?
Has your partner discussed separating or moving out?
Are you sticking around because you are afraid to leave and be alone? Or staying due to financial reasons?
Has this been going on for more than a few years?

Deciding to stay or break up is not an easy choice.

Feeling invisible in your relationship is extremely unhealthy. It is deeply harmful on an emotional level. It eventually rips a hole in your confidence and self-worth living in this type of environment. There is a constant reminder of what isn’t happening romantically between you any longer. The love is gone and replaced by heartbreak and tears.

It’s time to wipe those tears. Stop giving any more energy to someone who doesn’t see, care, or feel your pain. You don’t have to stay in an unloving partnership, and there are things you can do to change this.

I know it isn’t easy to make this life-changing decision. It takes a lot of courage. I am speaking from my own experience. I made the difficult choice and my life became so much better. Please watch the video below for more information.