The difficulty here is that you are sabotaging your own happiness because you keep people from rejecting you, by rejecting them first.
You may also not realize that you are sabotaging your own happiness. If it is really easy for you to find fault with everyone on your dating apps or anyone you meet in general, you are creating an excuse to protect your heart from further wounds.
It is important to understand that you deserve to be loved and to own your part in what you may be doing to sabotage love from coming into your world. You are very much in charge of the people you bring towards you just as much as who you repel away from you. Once you realize this is totally in your control, you can then start to work on repairing that internal dialogue that is keeping you stuck.
It’s never too late to do some homework and change up unfulfilling dating patterns that aren’t working. No one is perfect but we are all loveable. It is worth taking the time to understand how important that is to our health and well being.
Staying in denial and continually playing the victim, do not help you find happiness. It keeps you in a stagnant and negative alignment with everything around you.