If someone tells you they are not interested in having a serious relationship right now, believe them!
You don’t want to bring someone into your life if you still have emotional baggage pertaining to your Ex. The rule of thumb is, If you constantly think about them and you are still in love with them, you are not ready to date.
Dating and relationship life lessons are meant to lead you to a much better place! If you don’t set boundaries with each new relationship that you allow in your life, there is a good chance that you will continue to have the same repetitive problems. Own your mistakes and evolve to a higher place.
If you date with a positive outlook and give your energy to the right women, it can be a very exciting journey for you. You’re looking for a partner you can have a committed relationship with, so please don’t expect things to happen quickly. Getting frustrated after only a few months of dating isn’t going to help you get closer to meeting your person. If love was that easy to find, then it probably wouldn’t be as special or as important as it really is in all of our lives.