In today’s video above, I discuss Mark’s question. He met a girl online who cancelled their first date at the last minute. She didn’t even give him a reason! He wants to know if he should give her another chance and set up another date.
Why is dating in the millennium so difficult and why is there so little respect for other people’s time?
The biggest problem with meeting someone online is that you are not the only person they are communicating with. This leads to fickle behaviour due to the other options available! You may be texting them regularly. Suddenly, communication between you two stops. There appears to be no apparent reason for this sudden halt! This becomes very difficult to deal with and takes a big toll on your self-esteem!
Some men and women become addicted to “but what if there is someone better out there,”. They keep their dating profile as active as a pinball machine. They are afraid of missing out on a better conquest that might meet their extreme checklist.
The trouble with all of this is that people are lonelier than ever today. There are so many games being played. This sabotages anyone from finding a real relationship!
Mark isn’t the only one confused about what to do when someone ghosts you on a date. Always respect yourself first. Pay attention to the early red flags in any dating situation. Then you will bring yourself closer to eventually meeting the right person.
The more disrespect you allow in your life, the more you will continue to attract similar people toward you.
Stop giving the wrong people numerous chances to keep proving how wrong they are for you. It is important to learn this valuable life lesson! Don’t pine over someone who ghosted you. You really didn’t know them anyway. Be thankful to “The Universe.” It saved you from dealing with all the drama that certainly would have unfolded with this person.
You dodged a lot more than a little rejection from someone who obviously is void of human etiquette.
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