Love Unfiltered: Real Talk on Dating and Relationships ❤️
No BS Advice Videos & Informative Posts for Men and Women (From a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
Susan’s Dating/Relationship & Lifestyle Advice Column for Men & Women
In response to Barry’s question about his new girlfriend’s mixed signals, the advice emphasizes recognizing her clear stance on not wanting a commitment despite her desire to see him frequently. It advises Barry to respect her boundaries, avoid emotional investment, and communicate his own relationship needs. Ultimately, if he seeks commitment, he should consider moving on.
If you are not ready to at least have “the talk” after two years, then keeping her on hold is what is making her feel insecure. She is not seeing any changes within your relationship and doesn’t want to continue on without the acknowledgment that you are there for the long hall.
Put a little excitement back into your relationship and take the pressure out of the equation. You both need to bring a little courtship back in and get excited about dating each other again. You have gone into full-blown marital mode in a way too short of a time.
Trust should be at the very top of the “relationship priority list” and if it isn’t there in the very beginning, there is usually a pretty big reason why.
When you always respect yourself first, a boomerang effect happens and your life starts to flow in a smoother direction. The non-stop drama disappears and things are so much easier.
She may think it is easier to get over her past love when she has another person lined up to take their place, but more often than not it just adds double the confusion into her life.
