No BS Advice Videos, Blogs & Advice Column for Millennials and GenXers (By a Sassy Redhead who has been there, done that & has all the T-shirts to Prove it!)
To be on the same page, you have to be in agreement on what it is that you both want in a financial sense for your future together. This is an important conversation to have in the early stages of a new relationship.
We all like to think that we are in tune with our partners, but we all change a little over the years that we are together. Therefore, we can’t allow communication to stop or take our partner for granted, regardless of how many years we’ve been in our relationship.
There can be some difficult learning curves when it comes to matters of the heart, but there are some valuable lessons to help you gain insight, along the way. The trick is not to repeat mistakes or negative patterns of past relationships, so you can continue to move on in a better direction.
Having friendship boundaries is something that a couple should discuss when you first commit to a partnership. There has to be an agreeable compromise regarding how often you spend time with other people outside your relationship. What is acceptable and what isn’t?
Knowing what to say and how to respond to someone on a date can leave many people feeling a little nervous or intimidated. They can feel way out of their element, and what confidence they do have, gets buried under everything else taking place.
The difficulty here is that you are sabotaging your own happiness because you keep people from rejecting you, by rejecting them first.
