Dear Sybersue ~ Why Can’t I Get Past the First 3 Dates with Men? What am I doing Wrong?

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5tlUUYlra4

Canadian Talk Show Host & Author Dear Sybersue (Susan McCord) answers a question from Caroline on her advice column.

“What am I doing wrong that I can’t seem to get past the first 3 dates with men? I have no problem meeting guys and getting dates but they seem to lose interest in me quickly! I know I talk a lot and I am not a shy person.  Do you think this could be a problem for most men?”

Help!

Caroline

Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers

Dear Sybersue! A Dating Book for Men & Women that Makes you Think!

Canadian Talk Show Host & Author Susan McCord, discusses her book Dear Sybersue.  What is this dating book all about? The male interviewer in this video read it and loved it!  A great read for both sexes whether they are single, divorced, dealing with a breakup or trying to maintain a committed relationship!

A great read for both men and women who need advice on how to find and keep love in their lives.  Stop sabotaging your own happiness due to blaming others and not believing you deserve a loving partnership.  Find out how by reading Dear Sybersue!

Now available at Smashwords, itunes, Amazon.com, Amazon.india, Amazon.UK, and Barnes & Noble

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Susan McCord @ http://www.facebook.com/DatingRelationshipTalkShow

 

Dear Sybersue Interview with Vinney White on NewsTalk1010

 

Radio Talk Show Host Vinney White Interview with Susan McCord Sunday Sept 14th

Radio Talk Show Host Vinney White Interview with Susan McCord Sunday Sept 14th

Really looking forward to my Live #interview on Canada’s biggest talk station: #NewsTalk1010.com this Sunday at 8:15pm ET (5:15pm PT) with a condensed look at my new book #DearSybersue and a few questions from #VinneyWhite (http://www.vinneywhite.co.uk/) about how to live and love in the modern urban world.

Tune in for a Candid discussion on Dating ~ What’s working and what isn’t! Do men and women need a reality check? Are both sexes to blame for the changes that have taken place in the last 25 years? Maybe we ALL need to take a look in the mirror at what we are projecting to others. After all, we are in charge of ourselves and our own happiness at the end of the day.

Dear Sybersue Paperback Book is Now Published!

Dear Sybersue Paperback Book

Dear Sybersue Paperback Book

Hi everyone!

I have been working very hard this past year on my #ebook and I have now completed my #paperback book with double the original content! It has been approved for publishing! I am very excited to have made this happen! It is now available on numerous sites.

Here is a link at Amazon.com

Here is a link at Barnes & Noble and Smashwords

I will be organizing a book launch in Vancouver and any other events that I can attend and will post the details on my facebook page and my other #socialmedia sites! #DearSybersue is a great read for both men & women of all ages!  There is something for everyone regardless of relationship or dating status!

Thank you to all of you who have kept me inspired over the years. I appreciate your “Likes,” your comments, your subscriptions, your questions and your support!

hugs always xo Susan (Sybersue)

Dear Sybersue I met this guy on POF One Year Ago & Haven’t Met Yet

Dear Sybersue,

I just watched your video: Dating Advice for Men & Women: If They’re too Busy They are Just not That Into You!

I met this guy on the POF (Plenty of Fish) online dating site one year ago. We talk on the phone and “Cam text” daily. He is a graphic designer and always tooooo busy to meet! We still haven’t met. I had checked him out on Spokeo etc. He said he loves me although we haven’t met in person? Help!

I.M.
Hi I.M :)

I am glad you watched this video and the fact that you did shows me you already know the answer to this scenario. You have a cyber relationship! If this man is too busy to see you, he is too busy to date and shouldn’t be out there doing so. You didn’t tell me where you both live or other information, but in any situation a year is way over the top! He is either hiding something from you or is just having fun with you a few times a day. I am not saying his feelings aren’t “somewhat” legitimate, but you may want to ask yourself why this is enough for you?

It is very easy for someone to hide behind a computer screen and say all the right things, but you as the recipient have to know when to read behind the lines very early on. We know in our hearts if it’s real or not but sometimes we choose to let certain things slide because we are lonely or blinded by the initial charm.

We are all worthy of a loving reciprocated relationship, don’t ever settle. You should have a rule that you must meet your potential dates in the first few weeks of contact to see if there is a “real” connection. There are a lot of great actors out there that know how to “talk the talk!” Be smarter than them. Thanks for writing <3

Sybersue xo

Follow up answer from I.M.

Dear Sybersue,

I just want to be treated as a lady, like we all deserve, my ex husband was mentally and verbal abusive….. So I guess just want to be held and feel safe. I’m a romantic at heart. I have been divorced for 30 years, and haven’t dated much. He has never been married at 51 and neither have his brothers. Weird right?
Thank you, hugs I.M.

Hi again,

I think he sees that you are vulnerable because of what you have been through in the past and that is why this works for him. Some men look for that type of woman because she is less high maintenance and won’t ask so many questions. You want to be “held” by this man but he is not giving you that and hasn’t in a year. I don’t believe in ultimatums but in this case, this guy needs to step up and meet you in person or move on. The fact that he has never married (or his brothers) could have something to do with how he was raised. He may have abandonment or commitment issues but that is not your issue to work on.

The question I have for you which you may not like…”Are you really afraid of the truth that he may not be invested in this relationship and you don’t want to pressure him for fear that he will stop contact with you? This is better than nothing in your mind?” When you settle for something other than what you really want, you shortchange yourself and your happiness takes a back seat.

When you remove yourself from negative patterns and hold onto your self respect you will meet someone who can love you the right way. The hardest step is the first one and then the others come easier. It’s time for you to go for what really matters to you and to stop allowing yourself to be a low priority. Love happens at any age so don’t let that stop you from believing in it. If this guy won’t see you in the next few weeks you will have your answer.

xo hugs back, Sybersue

Dear Sybersue : My Boyfriend is Fed Up After I broke up With him 5 Times!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5BRY2…
Dating/Relationship/Lifestyle Advice Talk Show for Men & Women of all Ages!

Canadian Talk Show Host Susan McCord also known as Advice Columnist Dear Sybersue, answers Maria’s question: My Boyfriend and I have been together for 32 months but I have broken up with him 5 times. He is now fed up and says he’s done this last time. Part of me is ready for a change and I am thinking about moving away & maybe going to college. I still love him or at least think I do?? I am driving him crazy & making him insecure & jealous all the time. I asked him to go on a break to see if we should really end this once and for all.

What do you think?

Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers

 

 

 

My Published Book ~ Dear Sybersue

Susan's Book Cover

Dear Sybersue Book

 

Dear Sybersue Book Available at: https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/444306

Funny & Informative Dating & Relationship Advice For Men & Women of All Ages! A book written by a mature woman with young attitude who has been there done that and has so many T-shirt’s she could open a store! Learn how to remove negative dating patterns and find the love you desire. It’s all about believing you deserve to be in a loving partnership. You can have it all when you believe you can!

Dating/Relationship Lifestyle Talk Show Host Susan McCord was recently named a VIP member of Worldwide Branding. This special distinction honors individuals who have shown exceptional commitment to achieving personal and professional success.

Susan has devoted her career to helping others find happiness. Over the past decade, she has established a stellar reputation as a sought-after dating and relationship expert, advice columnist, blogger, and interviewer. She is best known for hosting a lifestyle talk show for an national audience on YouTube. Her show, “Leave It Two Beavers,” has garnered more than one million hits on YouTube. Ms. McCord consistently creates new content for the show, which consists of interviews, dating/relationship/lifestyle advice, and comical skits. She has established a large international audience via social media, and often encourages them to contribute ideas and feedback. She has received acknowledgement from a number of professionals and celebrities.

Additionally, Ms. McCord writes monthly articles as a dating adviser for Examiner.com and maintains an advice column on Sybersue.com. Her Twitter account has thousands of followers, and she posts videos and blogs that can be viewed on Yinyangtalk.com, Interview Talk Show.com, Vimeo, Tumblr, Pinterest, Instagram and her Facebook page. She is noted for being wise and informative, while being simultaneously friendly, down-to-earth and witty.

Susan previously worked as a flight attendant in Canada for two decades. She has also worked as a personal fitness trainer, photo double, and background actor for television and film. Ms. McCord has been giving advice to others for as long as she can remember, and she is excited to be able to transform her natural talent into a career. She plans to do as much as she can in the coming years in order to reach out and help an even larger audience find love and happiness. Her goal is to bring people together in a world that is still learning how to love and accept each other unconditionally.

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