Why Did My New Boyfriend Block Me After 2 Months?
What is going on out there that some people feel it is OK to date someone for a few months and then ghost them by blocking them?
How does someone blatantly walk away from a new relationship without even one word as to why they have made this decision? They don’t even have the decency to leave a note or a cowardly text!
How do you move on from being treated this way?
It’s not a nice feeling to be blocked but unfortunately, it is happening a lot more often right now. Part of the problem is that many men and women are dating more than one person and you can end up being tossed if you are not the chosen one in the end. Rather than having to give an explanation, they just stop the connection cold turkey.
When someone behaves this way they are not taking any accountability for their actions and somewhere in The Millennium, this has become a repetitive and disrespectful way to end a relationship!
It is definitely not OK!
Is there a way to protect yourself from having this scenario happening to you?
Hold back on giving a new love interest everything of yourself too quickly. You don’t really know them yet and you are not in an exclusive relationship with them so you shouldn’t be handing out your heart on a silver platter! <3
Do not see them every day even if they contact you regularly. Dropping everything for someone and being too available usually ends in disappointment. You have a life and it is important to maintain your own personal priorities before you give the reins to someone you barely know.
It is very important not to be too trusting when you are just getting to know someone.
We often get excited when we finally meet someone that really turns our head but being cautious should still be a priority no matter how smitten you may be with a new love interest. This is the time when you are the most vulnerable and those lustful pheromones are taking over your intellectual thoughts!
If you limit how often you see them in the first few months, it allows you to step back and have a clearer picture of what their true character consists of. Taking your time and not jumping into bed with them quickly will also give you more clarity because you’re not emotionally invested yet.
This will allow you to be more cautious and it will also help you not to rush in too fast wearing rose-colored glasses.
When some women give themselves to a man in the bedroom, they often feel that they are now connected to him in a much deeper way. Not all men are on the same page and have a more casual outlook as to where the relationship is going.
There are usually a few red flags when a guy is not looking for a committed partnership.
Don’t push these red flag warnings under the rug and ignore them. Be smart and pay close attention to his body language, listen to what he says, and make sure his actions match his words. Be careful not to make excuses for him or continually keep giving him the benefit of the doubt when he doesn’t follow through on things.
This goes for men dating women as well!
What should you do if he contacts you again at a later date?
It’s totally up to you as to how you should handle this scenario but if I were to advise you, I would ask you to be very careful about letting him back into your life again. If he was able to block you and walk away once from you, there is a good chance that he will do it again.
He showed you who he was early on and most people don’t change their true character that much.
When someone really likes you and they are ready for a commitment, they would have a hard time walking away. The fact that he blocked you certainly doesn’t mean that you are not desirable, it just means that he is not finished playing out his single days.
He was definitely attracted to you in the beginning but it’s not up to you to try to change his mind, and you shouldn’t want to do that anyway. You want to be with someone who is ready for love, and has no problem spending his time getting to know the great woman that you are!
This guy isn’t that person.
Sybersue xo <3
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