Today, I want to talk about accepting love back into your life after a difficult breakup.
Don’t let past fears or anger prevent you from finding that special person whom you can have a committed and loving partnership with. You deserve to be happy. Please don’t sabotage this. You might be having a difficult time getting over someone who hurt you. Your Ex has moved on. It’s time to take back your power and move forward in a positive direction.
There was a reason you broke up.
Many people have a tough time letting go of their Ex because they lack proper closure. They might not truly understand why their partner ended things. Quite often, it is not just your heart that is hurting; it is also your ego! Being rejected by someone you love is soul-crushing and takes a big toll on your self-worth. This can be a lingering pain that takes a long time to subside. You must do the work and acknowledge the issues that caused the demise of your breakup.
It is difficult to be objective when you are dealing with the pain of rejection. You may even go into denial about what really transpired in your partnership. There are always two sides to a breakup, and owning your part is crucial to start the healing process. Please be realistic and always remember that if it were really a great partnership, you would still be together. You are meant to be in a better place. You will comprehend this as time goes by and your heart starts to heal.
Humans are interesting and can be very complicated when it comes to love!
Some people spend so much time in a push/pull scenario! They’re not sure what they want in a relationship and often take it for granted. When it is taken away from them due to a breakup scenario, they change their mind and want it back again. You hear about this type of breakup/makeup situation all the time.
Understand that in a solid reciprocated partnership, you focus on making things work. You do this while you are together. You are not always looking for a way out or confused about what you want. You know what you have together and communicate as a team because you love one another unconditionally. There are no games or control issues.
We hold onto to so much past drama in our lives rather than look forward to the new beginnings that we are being offered.
When things don’t work out, there is always a reason. It is something you needed to learn or change about yourself to better your well-being and future happiness. Once you grasp this concept, your life will become a lot smoother. You will not repeat patterns that aren’t serving you. You are accepting them and moving upward into a healthier direction.
Life is all about lessons and understanding why you attract things toward you at certain stages.
You are in charge of your choices, and you have the power to bring amazing opportunities into your world. Let go of anger. Be grateful for the lessons you were supposed to learn. Move up the ladder to acceptance of who you are. Learn how to positively manifest your desires by letting go of negative thoughts and actions.
Take ownership of the decisions you made in your past relationships that may not have worked out the way you would have liked. That was not the path you were meant to be on. A much better place for you is coming your way.
Do not repeat scenarios that take on an unhealthy pattern. Embrace the lesson you endured, and be thankful for it. Take some time to heal. Move on with new knowledge. Gain a much better understanding of what is important in a reciprocated loving partnership. Always remember that you are an amazing person and always will be.
Thank you, Sybersue xo <3
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