Is shyness sabotaging your dating life? Does it keep you from going out and being sociable? There are ways to overcome this that can help you to meet a potential partner.
Despite what many people think, shyness isn’t about how you look, it is all about confidence! Self-esteem affects many men and women regardless of their physical appearance.
Beautiful people can be lonely too. I have coached numerous people of all ages who are very attractive but can’t get a date! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I truly think everyone is beautiful in their own way. We all have something to offer and we all deserve to be loved. The biggest fear for many shy people is not believing they deserve it!
Of course you do!
Shyness stems from something you learned early on in life which has programmed your thinking to become stuck in a cocoon of sorts. You don’t know how to break out of this introverted place and so you retreat even further into yourself as the years go by.
It’s time to break the pattern and get out of this lonely place of shyness!
We all have nagging demons that we internalize but that doesn’t mean we have to live with them. The options we have today are endless but the biggest part of this battle is making the effort to fix them.
You have to want to fix them!
It is a lot of work to delve into the core of who you are and you may not want to re-live how you got here in the first place!
Life is all about continual lessons and the sooner we learn how to move on from them the sooner our world becomes an easier and happier place to be.
When you really think about it, wouldn’t it be easier to take some time to deal with your issues than to hold onto them for an eternity? How will that enhance your life by burying your problems?
Do you think that being shy is a safe place to put yourself because you can use that as an excuse on why you can’t do certain things? Isn’t that boring, doing the same things all the time because of the fear of putting yourself out there?
You don’t have to be a crazy extrovert but being a fun person to be around is a good thing and makes people gravitate towards you. Shyness can be a very lonesome existence and is that what you really want or do you want to open up your world a little bit more?
It’s never too late to do some work on yourself, please watch the video above and leave your comments below this post! I want to hear from you, Sybersue <3
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