The old expression: “You snooze you lose,” can often be a very true statement in dating circumstances. Standing back and taking your time to initiate the first date can put you on the back burner and less of a texting priority when it comes to potential suitors!
Today I answer Christina’s question. My Husband Prefers Being With His Ex and Their Child Over Spending Time With Me & Our Son. Dear Sybersue,
This is a question that many men and women have struggled with over the years. When you have a really great friendship there can be a fine line between romance and being a buddy with someone. All it takes is one evening of curiosity to alter 5 years of platonic boundaries.
There needs to be boundaries with your friends on these girls nights. No one should have to go home feeling invisible and sad from spending a lonely evening being left out once again.
Everyone deserves a second chance but don’t allow someone into your life at the expense of you having to learn another painful lesson. Trust and communication are the building blocks of a healthy relationship, don’t ignore the value of their importance.
Pay close attention to the early stages of a relationship. We can all be well behaved for a short time and then our true self will eventually surface if we are not being authentic.