Why Can’t I be Alone and Need Constant Validation?

Today’s weekly upload is titled: Why can’t I be alone and why do I need constant validation?

Are you jumping from one person to the next without taking time out from dating or being in a relationship? Do you often feel unhappy and alone  even when you are in a partnership?

What is going on and why do you feel so unfulfilled? What’s missing in your life?

Many people need a little more “self-love motivation” because they are lacking a purpose that makes them feel whole.

What are you doing to make a difference in this life?

It doesn’t have to be something that makes a huge impact in the history books but at least try to do something that makes you feel like you are contributing to society in some way. (It could simply mean being a mentor to a young person, helping an elderly neighbor with small tasks or volunteering for a charitable cause.)

It’s hard not to feel good when you are giving back to someone! <3

Having goals and aspirations makes you feel amazing and gives you a reason to get up and get going in the morning! We are not here on earth to just exist, we ALL have something important within us to share with the world.

Relying on others to make you feel happy isn’t going to work because you will always feel the same void of what is missing deep within your soul. The validation you seek is from yourself not others.

Feeling Confident is always a work in process and we all deal with good days & bad days when it comes to our self-esteem. 

strong people

Contrary to what you may think, most people who are successful and who are generally happy in their lives have not had it easy. They just keep getting back up when they are knocked down with another obstacle that jumps onto their path. They keep persevering to a higher level of self-worth.

Why is this?

This happens because of the rewards obtained by living life outside the box. Trying new things motivates the mind and releases endorphins that make you feel great!

Anytime you accomplish something new it is like receiving a gold star! It gives you a purpose and makes you want to do even more! It is empowering to feel that good!!!

Watch the video above to see how you can change this pattern in your life.

Please leave your comments below this post. I love to hear from both men and women & will always take time to answer you back.


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