Millennial’s & Dating

Talk Show Host Dear Sybersue and Guest Co-host Andrea Wesley discuss how difficult dating is for Millennials these days! What’s going on? Do people have too big a checklist and are they too picky? Why is sex & hooking up expected on the first date and who made up that rule?

Is online dating and social media the main issue? What do you think the biggest problems are for the millennial age group?

Please leave your comments below.

Susan McCord @ http://www.sybersue.com    facebook.com/DearSybersue
Andrea Wesley @ http://www.thebolde.com/author/andrea-wesley/

 

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Hot Men Help Women To Remember How To Do Their Breast Exam

This is a great video for women on how to check their breasts for any abnormal changes. Watch it to the end, even the Doctor will surprise you!

Thinking of you all & reminding you to get your breast exam once a year religiously. None of US enjoy having it done but it really can save your life.

DON’T PUT IT OFF LADIES
http://www.rethinkbreastcancer.com

With Love, Susan xoxo

A Story Written By A Delta Airline Pilot On Approach Into Tokyo During The Earthquake

This blog/story is written by A Delta Airline Pilot which I thought many of my readers might appreciate hearing. As an Ex Flight Attendant I have been in many circumstances that the general public has never had to deal with or even knows existed. I have total respect for Air Crew & the dilemmas they encounter on a monthly basis, especially the pilots. My heart goes out to Japan & the aftermath of one of the largest earthquakes ever recorded. Narita, Tokyo, Osaka & Nagoya were some of my routes throughout my 20 year career & the people are proud & very independent. This is probably the hardest thing they have ever had to deal with, especially becoming dependent on the world for help. The devastation will continue to grow in the coming weeks as more information comes forward & we all have to offer our help in our own way.

I am beginning to wonder if the Gods really are angry & trying to tell us to get along as a world nation with all the natural disasters as of late. It makes war seem so even more senseless when dealing the trauma of Haiti, New Orleans earthquake, The Sumatra Tsunami, The Pakistan floods and the endless world tragedies that occur annually~ Our world is such a beautiful place but is constantly being destroyed by so many things, At the very least if humans could get along & appreciate each other, maybe those life lessons would lessen the anger of Mother Nature and give us some peace…Because spiritual or not, someone is ANGRY!

Here is his story:

I’m currently still in one piece, writing from my room in the Narita crew hotel.
It’s 8am. This is my inaugural trans-pacific trip as a brand new, recently checked out, international 767 Captain and it has been interesting, to say the least, so far. I’ve crossed the Atlantic three times so far so the ocean
crossing procedures were familiar.

By the way, stunning scenery flying over the Aleutian Islands. Everything was going fine until 100 miles out from Tokyo and in the descent for arrival. The first indication of any trouble was that Japan air traffic control started
putting everyone into holding patterns. At first we thought it was usual congestion on arrival. Then we got a company data link message advising about the earthquake, followed by another stating Narita airport was temporarily
closed for inspection and expected to open shortly (the company is always so positive).

From our perspective things were obviously looking a little different. The Japanese controller’s anxiety level seemed quite high and he said expect “indefinite” holding time. No one would commit to a time frame on that so I got my copilot and relief pilot busy looking at divert stations and our fuel situation, which, after an ocean crossing is typically low.

It wasn’t long, maybe ten minutes, before the first pilots started requesting diversions to other airports. Air Canada, American, United, etc. all reporting minimal fuel situations. I still had enough fuel for 1.5 to 2.0 hours of holding. Needless to say, the diverts started complicating the situation.

Japan air traffic control then announced Narita was closed indefinitely due to damage. Planes immediately started requesting arrivals into Haneada, near Tokyo, a half dozen JAL and western planes got clearance in that direction but then ATC announced Haenada had just closed. Uh oh! Now instead of just holding, we all had to start looking at more distant alternatives like Osaka, or Nagoya.

One bad thing about a large airliner is that you can’t just be-pop into any little airport. We generally need lots of runway. With more planes piling in from both east and west, all needing a place to land and several now fuel critical ATC was getting over-whelmed. In the scramble, and without waiting for my fuel to get critical, I got my flight a clearance to head for Nagoya, fuel situation still okay. So far so good. A few minutes into heading that way, I was “ordered” by ATC to reverse course. Nagoya was saturated with traffic and unable to handle more planes (read- airport full). Ditto for Osaka.

With that statement, my situation went instantly from fuel okay, to fuel minimal considering we might have to divert a much farther distance. Multiply my situation by a dozen other aircraft all in the same boat, all making demands
requests and threats to ATC for clearances somewhere. Air Canada and then someone else went to “emergency” fuel situation. Planes started to heading for air force bases. The nearest to Tokyo was Yokoda AFB. I threw my hat in the ring
for that initially. The answer – Yokoda closed! no more space.

By now it was a three ring circus in the cockpit, my copilot on the radios, me flying and making decisions and the relief copilot buried in the air charts trying to figure out where to go that was within range while data link messages were flying back and forth between us and company dispatch in Atlanta. I picked Misawa AFB at the north end of Honshu island. We could get there with minimal fuel remaining. ATC was happy to get rid of us so we cleared out of the
maelstrom of the Tokyo region. We heard ATC try to send planes toward Sendai, a small regional airport on the coast which was later the one I think that got flooded by a tsunami.

Atlanta dispatch then sent us a message asking if we could continue to Chitose airport on the Island of Hokkaido, north of Honshu. Other Delta planes were heading that way. More scrambling in the cockpit – check weather, check charts,
check fuel, okay. We could still make it and not be going into a fuel critical situation … if we had no other fuel delays. As we approached Misawa we got clearance to continue to Chitose. Critical decision thought process. Let’s see –
trying to help company – plane overflies perfectly good divert airport for one farther away…wonder how that will look in the safety report, if anything goes wrong.

Suddenly ATC comes up and gives us a vector to a fix well short of Chitose and tells us to standby for holding instructions. Nightmare realized. Situation rapidly deteriorating. After initially holding near Tokyo, starting a divert to
Nagoya, reversing course back to Tokyo then to re-diverting north toward Misawa, all that happy fuel reserve that I had was vaporizing fast. My subsequent conversation, paraphrased of course…., went something like this:

“Sapparo Control – Delta XX requesting immediate clearance direct to Chitose,
minimum fuel, unable hold.”

“Negative Ghost-Rider, the Pattern is full” <<< top gun quote <<<

"Sapparo Control – make that – Delta XX declaring emergency, low fuel,
proceeding direct Chitose"

"Roger Delta XX, understood, you are cleared direct to Chitose, contact Chitose
approach….etc…."

Enough was enough, I had decided to preempt actually running critically low on fuel while in another indefinite holding pattern, especially after bypassing Misawa, and played my last ace…declaring an emergency. The problem with that
is now I have a bit of company paperwork to do but what the heck.

As it was – landed Chitose, safe, with at least 30 minutes of fuel remaining before reaching a "true" fuel emergency situation. That's always a good feeling, being safe. They taxied us off to some remote parking area where we shut down and watched a half dozen or more other airplanes come streaming in. In the end, Delta had two 747s, my 767 and another 767 and a 777 all on the ramp at Chitose. We saw to American airlines planes, a United and two Air Canada as well. Not to mention several extra Al Nippon and Japan Air Lines planes.

Post-script – 9 hours later, Japan air lines finally got around to getting a boarding ladder to the plane where we were able to get off and clear customs. -that however, is another interesting story.

By the way – while writing this – I have felt four additional tremors that shook
the hotel slightly – all in 45 minutes.

Cheers,
J.D.

New Personal Blog From Talk Show Host Susan McCord

Hi everyone~

I am very happy to have added this new blog to my numerous collection of websites. I want this one to be more of a personal opinion rather than the articles that I usually write for my video topics. Please connect with me anytime & send me any questions you have on dating & relationships as well. I love to banter back & forth with positive feedback. I will be starting an Internet Radio Talk Show in June that will be VERY candid. I hope you will follow me there & add to the conversation!

I will keep you updated as soon as I get more information on the finished programming!

In the meantime please check out my Online Talk Show on my YouTube channel
@ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers

~I give great support to other websites so please comment & subscribe so I know where to find you~

Looking forward to meeting new friends~xo Susan