Canadian Talk Show Host Susan McCord (aka Dear Sybersue) discusses a big problem that many people face in relationships today.
When you are dealing with insecurities or drama from your past it can play a big part in who you choose as a partner or it can sabotage potential relationships from happening.
Being needy or clingy isn’t endearing to others as it comes off as manipulative or controlling and wears thin after a while.
Wanting to be with someone is a totally different concept to needing to be with someone.
No one wants to feel suffocated and neither do they want to have to answer to someone 24/7! They want to share their life with you NOT be your life! Pay attention to the type of partner you are choosing, as there may be a pattern that you are not aware of.
You may be attracted to unavailable people or may not feel worthy of having a loving relationship. If you have some deep rooted negative programming that you just can’t seem to change from your past, it might be time to talk to a professional about it.
You deserve to be happy and it is never too late to make changes. ❤
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Does love NOT come easy for you?
Are you having trouble maintaining a relationship?
We are the ones who are responsible for choosing the people we allow in our lives but when a relationship doesn’t work out we still want to put the blame on the other person. Why is that? Because then we don’t have to look too deep into what is really going on!
Life lessons can be difficult but they are much easier to move past when you take ownership of your actions and personal choices. It allows you to grow as an individual and become a better person with each “aha moment.”
Staying in denial and continually playing the victim, does not help you find happiness. It keeps you in a stagnant and negative alignment with everything around you.
If you find that you are becoming jaded or angry about believing in love, then it might be time to take a long hard look in the mirror. Are you sabotaging your happiness because of a deep rooted belief or hurt?
Any prolonged emotion that you “take on” is something that you really need to deal with. It can be all consuming and can lead you into the wrong direction over and over again. Don’t ignore your feelings; work through them.
Watch the video above to help you deal with another broken partnership. There may be something that you can change to help you meet the right person and have a long term commitment.
It’s never too late to be an even better version of who you already are. ❤
Please leave your comments below to let others know how you handled this situation .
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I always seem to meet lying and manipulative girls who treat me like shit even though I’m a great guy.
Why is that?
I recently gave the same girl 3 different chances to stop treating me like crap, yet she was soon back to her old ways. This has happened numerous times with other women I have dated. I don’t understand girls, why are they all like this?