You may ask: “Isn’t dating difficult enough, rather than adding mileage into the equation?” That really depends on how serious you are about wanting to find your love connection and having a partnership. Sometimes you have to go outside your usual comfort zone and include other opportunities into the mix.
If the love between you both isn’t reciprocated after a reasonable of amount of time, you may be setting yourself up for a big disappointment. You need to be honest with yourself about what’s really going on because you KNOW when they are into you! Fantasizing over what you hope will happen isn’t reality, and it will keep you stuck in a place you should never allow yourself to be.
If you don’t want to be taken for granted it’s time to have some boundaries and build up your confidence, so people do not keep taking advantage of you!
When you ignore the big red flags in your life you are not in alignment with yourself and your needs.
Hi Susan, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (21 and 22). Recently he’s been bogged down with school/work issued and some