If there is a repetitive issue or argument that takes place whenever you see your family, this needs to be addressed and dealt with as quickly as possible. Not only does it take a toll on your self-worth within your family dynamic, but it can also alter how you connect on an emotional level with your partner. In other words, your moods affect your partner’s moods.
You have a choice on who you allow into your life. There is no rule book that you have to follow.