No one is immune to feeling rejection or loneliness in their life at one time or another but to just sit back and not take chances is not going to change your love life
It’s not always the other person’s fault when a relationship fizzles or has trouble getting past the first few dates;
Understanding women. Men worry too much about rejection and lose many great opportunities from fear of “what if she isn’t interested in me?”
When a relationship is right you don’t need to use ultimatums.
Many men & women who have written my advice column are complaining about the obvious checklists people have when they are out on a date.