Once you understand that you are OK being alone is when you will clearly see that you are worthy of having a healthy and reciprocated love relationship. Most people feel disconnected at certain times in their lives. This is totally normal and can actually be a motivating factor in improving your life when you are faced with a little hardship. You have the choice to stay in the negative mode in front of you or find ways to jump over the hurdles thrown in your path.
When someone keeps saying they are too busy to get together or constantly canceling plans, this is showing that they are not available or invested in having a committed partnership with you. (Even if they are really that busy then they probably shouldn’t be dating, at least not at your expense.)
It is perfectly acceptable to ask her what her relationship goals are. If you are using dating apps or online websites I always suggest that you post your own personal goals in your profile description. That way there aren’t any questions and that anyone reading it knows you are looking for a life partner.
We are often on different pages in a relationship without realizing it. This is why it is so important in the early stages to be a great communicator and also have healthy boundaries. She may view your partnership as more of a casual situation than how you are perceiving things.
In today’s video I discuss being in a new relationship and how important it is to find out if you and your partner are on