In the video above, I discuss an important topic that many women write to me about! How to get over a breakup a lot faster!
Men seem to move on much quicker from a relationship breakup than many women do, which allows them to bring happiness back into their lives at a faster rate.
The main reason for this is that when men decide their partnership is over, they have usually mentally prepared for this way before the actual time they end it. They have already checked out of the partnership. This can blindside many women wondering what the Hell happened. This is also the reason why many women take so much longer to get past the hurt and sadness of a breakup because they didn’t see it coming.
If you find that you often end up in heartbreaking scenarios, moving forward, I advise that you pay close attention early to any red flags or warning signals you may see or feel. It is so important to listen closely to your instincts when you are first dating someone. This can save you from prolonging certain relationships that aren’t right for you. Your gut instincts are your best friend!
There are usually some signs that your partner is moving away from the relationship.
There will always be some men that show no signs of discontentment within their relationship; but for the most part, there are some indications that things have changed. This is why it is crucial to make your partner a priority and pay very close attention to any changes that happen within your partnership. Never take things for granted and always nurture the love between you on a daily basis.
Sometimes we do everything in our power to maintain the connection with our partner, only to come to terms that there isn’t a salvageable future. We can grow apart for many reasons that aren’t always in our control, which is what makes some breakups even more difficult.
Quite often, couples grow apart over the years due to boredom or complacency.
As a couple, you don’t always grow in the same direction and unfortunately, there’s not a lot you can do about that. This happens when a couple forgets how to communicate and have fun together. They slowly start to pull away from one another romantically, which eventually makes the couple feel very disconnected. You may even start to live separate lives under the same roof.
Regardless of this, it can still be difficult to end a long-term partnership because you have grown accustomed to them being in your life. Even if the intimacy has deteriorated, it can still be hard to walk away from someone you have shared a big part of your life with. This is a big reason some couples stay together for many years in an unhealthy relationship.
Many breakups happen for the right reasons and once you look back with fresh clarity you will understand why things ended.
You are meant to be on a different path. This is the time to reflect and understand that your relationship has run its course, and you are meant to be in a better place. When things are right between a couple, you make things work. You are both on the same page and growing in the same direction. When the dynamics alter, and you are no longer in a reciprocated partnership, it is time, to be honest with yourself and understand that you deserve more in a relationship.
Once the hurt slowly starts to subside, you will begin to see that there is a bright future for you. This is a chance to start fresh with who you have become over the years, and to be excited about the lessons you have learned along the way. We all change, and we are not always meant to be with one partner our entire life. Be optimistic that there are wonderful new beginnings coming onto your path and embrace them.
Get off the couch, dust off your pride, and get out there to be the best NEW you ever. There is a reason your relationship ended, and it is usually a wake-up call to a much happier place. Don’t spend too much time dwelling on your EX and open up your eyes to see what the Universe has in store for your future.
Susan McCord @ The Dear Sybersue Talk Show