In today’s weekly video upload Dear Sybersue discusses the great reasons to go on that second date. Don’t let a good one slip through your picky checklist!
So many men and women are fed up with dating and have become a little jaded with the selection or “lack of” suitable people they want to spend time with. Pay attention on the first date and look past those early judgments. Give them a chance but of course you should always listen to your gut instincts for any dangerous red flags.
I am hoping that the reason you stopped by to read this post is because you still believe in love and relationships. You understand that your attitude and confidence are important factors to meeting a potential partner. You “get it” that you are in charge of who you attract towards you.
We are all equipped with having the ability to make choices in our lives. If you choose to live in a happy optimistic environment, people will want to be around you.
It is the same thing when you are out on a date; what do you offer to get their attention?
- Are you relaxed and fun to be around?
- Do you add light-hearted humor to the conversation?
- Are you playful and have a reciprocated interaction with them?
- Can you be your authentic self around them?
- You understand that early judgments or picky checklist conversations are a negative behaviour that blocks having a connection with them.
- You are able to open up with a flirtatious confidence that make them want more of you.
We all are so quick to judge others these days and this causes problems in our personal lives when it comes to being in a committed relationship. There is a “saboteur villain” lurking deep within us that rears its ugly head each time we put ourselves back out in the dating and relationship pool.
Rejection makes us CRAZY!
The main reason for this is because those past problems we had with our EX’s haven’t completely been resolved. We carry them forward.
Take the good things from your past experiences and look for more of that with each person you come in contact with romantically. There is always something wonderful you learned in your last relationship, don’t dwell on the negative things.
No one wants to be around Debbie or Dick Downer.
Have you had a great first date that led to something more? Please tell share this in the comment section below the post! I love to hear from viewers & often answer their relationship and dating questions on my show and advice column as a topic choice.
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