Dear Sybersue is an Informative and very REAL dating and relationship advice columnist for men & women of all Ages!
In today’s video, I talk about people who are afraid to be themselves with their partners and who may be sabotaging their relationships without even being aware of the damage that is taking place on a daily basis.
When you hide your feelings and don’t divulge much of what you are thinking or feeling to your partner it can cause all sorts of problems that may never be resolved. Lack of communication between a couple is one of the biggest reasons for breakups today!
If you don’t talk openly with each other, what type of relationship do you have?
Pushing your partner away because of insecurities will not keep your relationship in a healthy place. How do you honestly think it will improve if you become more and more introverted about your true feelings?
They deserve more respect and your full attention. You are not in a part-time situation that allows you to close down and shut your partner out. They have emotional and physical needs that shouldn’t be put on the back burner.
How long do you think they will want to stay in a one-sided romance?
You fell in love for a reason; don’t let your relationship die due to fear, sabotage, or laziness. Talk to your partner and tell them what’s going on inside your head. They will probably be more supportive than you think!
When you open up and share your feelings with them they know you trust them, which is a big part of a great relationship. Clamming up and pretending all is good, is not being true to yourself or to them. You both deserve more.
Go on, you can fix this! ❤