In the video above Dear Sybersue discusses a topic that many women write her about! They want to know how to get over a breakup a lot faster!
Men seem to move on much quicker from a relationship breakup than many women do, which allows them to bring happiness back into their lives at a faster rate.
The main reason for this is because when men decide their partnership is over, they are usually prepared way before the actual time they end it. This can blindside a lot of women wondering what the Hell happened.
This can often be the reason why many ladies take so much longer to get past the hurt and sadness. It is a huge rejection to them because they didn’t any see red flags; or in many cases chose to ignore them hoping things would improve.
There are usually some signs that a man is moving away from the relationship. Of course there will always be those big actors that play a great role in showing no signs of discontentment within their relationship; but for the most part there are some indications that things have changed.
This is why it is crucial to make your partnership a priority. Never take things for granted and give all you can to nurturing it on a daily basis.
Quite often couples grow apart over the years due to boredom or complacency but it is still difficult to end a long term partnership. You have grown accustomed to having them in your life even if the romance has deteriorated.
Once the hurt dies down a little you will begin to see that there is a bright future for you. It is a chance to start fresh with who you have become over the years. We all change and not always meant to be with one partner our entire life. Be optimistic that there are wonderful new beginnings coming onto your path and embrace them.
Get off the couch ladies, dust off your pride and get out there to be the best NEW you ever. There is a reason your relationship ended and it is usually a wake up call to a much happier place. Don’t spend too much time dwelling on your EX and open up your eyes to see what the Universe has in store for your future.
Susan McCord @ The Dear Sybersue Talk Show