Dear Sybersue discusses a common pattern with many men & women: “The Chase!”
Are you addicted to going after someone who isn’t available or plays games with you? You think that it’s just a matter of time until they give in but maybe they just really aren’t interested!
You are spending all your energy on the wrong people over and over again by trying to win them over.You need to ask yourself why this is so important to you to choose people who really aren’t that into you. Has there been rejection or abandonment issues that have become too familiar to you from your past? Or maybe you are commitment phobic and the chase keeps you from having to be in a serious relationship?
Is this really what you want long term?
Maybe it’s time to find real love!