Phone Sex/Sexting & Pillow Talk

Question:
How do I implement phone sex & sexting & pillow talk into my relationship. I am shy & feel silly talking like this. How do I not come across like a novice? I want to spice up my sex life!

Naughty talk is the next best thing to being there & is a great tool for keeping love alive across the miles when you can’t be together. Some people use this format with a web cam but if the phone is your only resource, use it to entice your lover with some exciting visuals!

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Here are a few tips to get you going:

• Start out texting them throughout the day with sexy one liners
• Send them a few enticing photos in a text ( be careful where these photos may end up down the road )
• Set a time when you will be calling them later
• Tell them what sexy things you are wearing
• Speak softly & seductively low tones
• Reminisce about a sexy evening you recently shared
• Start out by describing kissing them
• Tell them what you would like them to do to you
• Talk about your fantasies & work them into the conversation
• Have a glass of wine for liquid courage if you are shy in the beginning
• Lie down & talk with your eyes closed or while in a candle lit room
• Make your scenario sexy so it puts you in the mood to be sexy
• Give them a play by play scenario as to what you are doing to encourage them
• Have beginning, a middle & an end to your story

It can be a difficult to feel comfortable at first and many people start off with a “little” liquid courage. Wait until you have known your partner for awhile so that you are aware of their likes & dislikes. Remember to keep it romantic as well. Everyone’s ideas vary on sex talk, some are bolder than others so be aware of their boundaries~ Have fun!

Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers

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2 thoughts on “Phone Sex/Sexting & Pillow Talk

  1. Very good advice. I have a long-distance-loverelation as well.
    The comment “be careful were these photos may end up down the road” made me want to leave a comment.
    My lover and I both enjoy erotic photography. Maybe because I’m bisexual I do enjoy sexy photos of naked women as much as he does. And maybe therefore I do not mind him enjoying them.
    So I do send him sexy photos I find on the internet, not photos of myself, so they can end up wherever.
    But that will only work for you if you do not feel threatened/jealous about these too perfect photoshopped bodies that these models have.
    I am not a model. But I have a sexy naughty mind -and that he LOVES.
    Angie

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    • Hi Angie,

      Thanks for taking the time to write & comment~It sounds like you are in a great relationship that works for you, that’s what it is all about. Everyone has different flavors so to speak and that is what makes life interesting. Finding someone compatible is what we are all looking for and you have done that. Being a little naughty is a good thing as long as both people are on board with how far it goes. It keeps the relationship fresh without complacency.

      Have a great weekend! xo Susan

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